Where it happened: in motel
Langauge: English
Sex: Female
Rating: 7
Category: Straight
Whoa Lorrie of number 1801 ! ! ! ! Just what kind of role model is your step father if he is going to have sex with his “extreme youth” step daughter?
Just how can he be so sure of when the non-fertile periods of a step-daughter might be? Girls of “extreme youth” generally have irregular periods. It seems to me that he was guessing and taking chances. There’s a reason they call it Vatican roulette.
I also have questions about your not being attractive enough to attract a husband. Are you doing all you can to make yourself attractive? What does coming from a “low-grade” family have to do with it? Somewhere along the line, (before 29 years), you are what you make of yourself. As for as virginity goes, the issue is one of self-respect rather than value to someone else. Get some advice on improving your self esteem. I think that is where you need to change if you want to make yourself attractive. Having sex with a parent figure on the sneak is only going to tear yourself down in your own eyes.
I can accept that two virgins might get carried away and have unprotected sex ONCE. One you have tasted the forbidden fruit, there is no excuse for taking chances. You then know that you WILL do it again and you make preparations. It is simply unfair to the baby to make his existence an inconvenient accident. It is irresponsible to make other people pony up because you engage in adult activity when you are not taking adult responsibility. Your stepfather sounds like no prize to me.
I was waiting to get married before I had sex. That was the way I was raised. I turned down and broke up with a number of YM’s over this issue. I would make out and give a guy relief if he wanted, but intercourse was to wait for marriage.
The last YM I dated was a gentleman in every sense of the word. One night I rubbed him through his pants and he stopped me. When he was driving me home, he said that if we were going to go further we should think about birth control and discuss the need for disease protection. He had only gotten so far as undoing my bra at this point.
I made my views known with some anger. He said I was entitled to my views but he would not undo his fly or touch between my legs without condoms. He said it is not very likely that a girl could get pregnant simply by wandering sticky fingers but why take chances. He is the one who first said to me that a baby has a right not to get conceived outside of marriage. He would like to have intercourse when we got engaged but he would wait until marriage if that is what I really wanted. But without birth control, he wasn’t going to get involved in any heavy making out.
I had a big think with myself when I got home. This man was sensible and considerate in many other ways. I was very interested in seeing this relationship move along. He didn’t bring the subject up the next date and he kept his hands off. On the way home I asked and found out he was a virgin so I suggested for me to get some pills and if we were to trust enough to heavy making out we should trust each other to be truthful about being virgins. He said he agreed with my thoughts and he wouldn’t push intercourse.
When I got the pills started, I told him we were all set. When the mild making out didn’t get any heavier after a month, I asked him about why not. He said that since I was the one with the most restraint, he would let me set the pace in lovemaking, and if he felt things were moving too slow, he would say so. I had another big think with myself as here was someone very special. The next date, I suggested we go away for a shipboard cruise. He said “And?” I said we would get a double cabin and be like married because I had a change of heart. Instead, he suggested we go on a car trip to an off-season trip of the Smoky Mountains because we should be alone and be really alone for a first time. He also suggested we plan for heavy making out and let the intercourse happen only if we felt like it.
Our first time was in a motel on sort of a “pre-honeymoon.” I brought a sexy nightie. We got naked and had our first heavy make-out session that night. I found out he is super talented with his fingers and blew my cork like I could only do with myself. He said he was tired from the driving and wanted me to stroke him off because a first time should be for love not for release from tension. I was beginning to wonder if he was OK in the head about sex. The next morning, I rubbed myself until I was good a wet and got on top of him before he was fully awake. I had him in me before he fully aware. It was simply fabulous for both of us. Let me assure you, he is very OK concerning sex. While I was in the bathroom, he went into his suitcase. When I came back, he pretended to be a little disappointed because he said only deeply committed couples should have sex, preferably engaged couples. I didn’t know what to say and he said “Please marry me. You would make me the happiest man in the world and I will do everything I can to make you the happiest woman in the world.” I still didn’t know what to say and he said, “A simple ‘Yes, my love,” will do just fine. He had a diamond ring in his hand and a big smile on his face. He explained if I made the leap to offer myself to him by going on a trip, he was prepared to reciprocate by making a leap of his own. We made love again in celebration and got up for breakfast. There is nothing so romantic as being considerate and thinking ahead. We were both 24 years old at the time and that is why we did things the way we did. It is also my statement why teens should not be having sex.
We just came back from my first cruise that he surprised me with for our fifth anniversary. Cruises are not all what they are cracked up to be. The trip to the Smoky Mountains in January when all was deserted was just right. Our first intercourse was just right. My husband is just right. I went off the pill last summer. I’m feeling a little queasy and I’m wondering if we have a little souvenir from the cruise. That would be just right.
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