Where it happened: Hotel
Langauge: English
Sex: Female
Rating: 10
Category: Straight
Although I waited a lot longer than expected until I actually had sex, my first experience was worth the wait. I have dated several people in the last few years, but no one that I knew that I really loved. I have done almost everything with various boyfriends over the years, but I always stopped right before they were about to enter me. I firmly believe in only having sex with someone I love. But at the age of 20, I can still say that I really have no idea what love is, but have a much closer idea than ever before. Before I get into the details of what actually happened (since I know that is why many of you read these), I want to explain how we met. I work for a company who hires consultants all across the country, and in my job I have a lot of contact with these consultants over the phone. One night about three months ago, Mark (thatÆs his name) called and happened to get me randomly. This call started at about 8pm, and it ended a little after 6am, and we still had not done any business. Instantly we had a special connection. For the next month and a half, we talked every day for at least three hours, sometimes not sleeping at all. We talked about everything; fears, dreams, past relationships, and hit almost every topic imaginable. I decided that I needed to meet him, although he lived half way across the country. We had exchanged pictures after talking for a week, and we were both pleased with that we saw. I had spoke to his mom and roommates, and he had talked to my roommates and sisters. So I did not feel like I was going to meet a stranger or some psycho.
The week before I flew to see him, we talked about sex a lot. We were comfortable sharing our most secret fantasies and desires. We even got to a point where we would very vividly describe what we would like to be doing to each other – and those were wet and hot conversations!! I was very nervous to go, and I told him all along that I was not guaranteeing that we would have sex, but I also knew that I felt more comfortable with him just talking over the phone, then some guys I had dated for a few months. He knew that I had never had sex before, and I was aware that he had experienced 5 other women.
So when I got off the plane at about 10am, he hugged me too tightly. We went back to his place, and instantly started kissing very passionately, and it was not uncomfortable in the least. It seemed as though I had known him forever. We finally made love at 2am (about 16 hours after I arrived). I say ômade loveö, since it was slow, comfortable, mutually fulfilling, and done with someone I cared about so very much. All day we had kissed, with his hands going up my shirt and down my parts, and my hands doing the same. He can suck a nipple like no guy I have ever met, or probably will ever meet. He was always gentle, and very concerned with my enjoyment. When he went down on me, I was very comfortable spreading myself completely open to him for his tongue to play around. That is not very common for most people. Not to mention we were totally sober, we didnÆt want alcohol to be the reason for our actions, but love instead. I, in return went down to orally please him, and I knew he was enjoying himself, but he held back since I told him that I do not like to swallow, and he respected by wishes. So he pulled me up to his face and asked me if he could make love to me. I said, öI would love to be that close to youö. I spread my legs as he leaned over me. I took him penis in my hands and lead the head into my vagina. He slowly pushed in little by little, and it did not hurt…but was really tight and awkward. He was rather large which made it even more difficult. I was squeezing his hands as he looked into my eyes, and I knew that having him all the way inside me was worth the slight pain. Plus, with him looking into my eyes and holding my hand, it really made me know that he cared if it was hurting me and that we were going through it together. It probably took about 3-5 minutes to get totally inside. But the sex that finally resulted was well worth the effort.
I couldnÆt imagine having sex for the first time with someone who I didnÆt love simply because it required patience and caring in order for us to really work well together. We continued to have safe sex the rest of the weekend, and leaving was very hard, with both of us crying. So now we are together and trying to make a long distance relationship work. It wonÆt be easy, but I was glad I waited for him to have sex with for the first time, even though I had only known him for two months, and physically been with him for 16 hours. That might not seem like very long, but I can honestly say that I know him better than most people who live in the same city with the people they have sex with for the first time. It was fate for us to talk that first time. That is my first sexual experience and I hope you enjoyed hearing about it.
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