Where it happened: mancheser
Langauge: english
Sex: Female
Rating: 5
Category: Straight
very man’s concern is not lasting long enough in bed however help is ‘at hand’ -pardon the pun- with our proven tips which are guaranteed to give you the staying power of a god.
1. Don’t believe the hype
The average guy lasts 5 – 10 minutes. Fact. So all those porn movies showing marathon sessions are all fake. Get that into your head and don’t measure yourself against something which is not real.
2. Practice
When you masturbate, do so with her orgasm in mind and not yours. When you feel yourself reaching orgasm, stop and wait for around 15 seconds then begin again. This technique can help you create signals in your brain and eventually you can turn yourself on or off (briefly) to keep things going longer.
3.The pinch
If you find yourself reaching the point of no return, stop and pinch just below the head of your penis. Pay attention to the tube running along the underside as it will push blood out of the penis and repress your orgasm long enough to carry on.
4. Exercise
A kegel is the name for the exercise which helps you control the muscles used in ejaculation. When you are peeing, tighten those muscles by stopping in mid flow then stop, start, stop start to familiarise yourself with the movement. – Don’t do this is public toilet though! Once you have mastered it then you can do it anywhere when you are not peeing – this is the equivalent of women tightening their pelvic floor and it all aids in better sex.
5. Press and hold
To keep things going for her whilst at the same time giving you a moment to control things again, press the head of your penis into her clitoris and then stay around the entrance of her vagina without actually fully entering her. The first couple of centimetres are the most stimulating for her and your lack of thrusting will help you to bring things back under control. She will only notice your thoughtfulness at helping her achieve her orgasm.
6.Ladies first
When your partner orgasms first it takes the pressure off and reduces the anxiety which is known to actually cause premature ejaculation. So when she comes first, you come longer.
7. Girls on top
When she is on top there is less stimulation for you and you can last longer. Guide her to go slowly though as hard and fast thrusting is not conducive to lasting longer!
8.Stop thinking
Whether you are thinking about having an orgasm or thinking about NOT having one, either way you are still using the part of the brain which triggers it. So try not to think about it at all and focus on what you are doing to stimulate your partner and you will diffuse your own pleasure enough to last that bit longer. Some men report that they think about cabbages or even Margaret Thatcher – whatever turns you OFF you might say.
9.Switch
When you feel yourself reaching the point of orgasm, try switching positions. The break in stimulation can help in decreasing your desire long enough to carry on for longer. Try not to keep switching too much though as it can make a sensual experience turn into a circus act. Focus on HER orgasm more which will help to delay yours long enough so that you both arrive together.
10. second time around
Most men find that a second round will last much longer so whether you masturbate in the shower just before you get intimate together or begin again after the first explosion of lust on a more sensual level it’s finding what works for you and your partner. By concentrating on her pleasure you will find that your own is enhanced too.
Now you just need to put it asll into practice. if you don;t have a partner or girlfriend then why not take a look at some of the very beautiful London escorts who may be available for dates and fun in all areas of the city and beyond.
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