Where it happened: At my boyfriends house
Langauge: English
Sex: Female
Rating: 10
Category: Straight
I think you guys need to lay off of Jay! I am not a born again Christian but I respect his opinion. One person attacked Jay on his spelling. Get a life pal! Just because Jay isn’t the greatest speller in the world does not mean is not a Christian or that he does not have anything importannt to say. From his response, it was obvious to me that he was highly intelligent and articulate. (Try reading his response without getting obsessed over spelling and you will see what I mean!) Hell, I am no prize speller myself, and I bet many of the rest of you are not either!
Some other goon wrote and said that Jay was just a far right wing Christian who was trying to impose his stupid morals on the rest of us. I don’t know whether I totally agree with Jay on this point but at least I will admit that if a person will wait until marrage they do stand a much better chance of avoiding things like unwanted pregancies and STDs. Another born again Christain that I know personally pointed out to me that if every single person would simply wait until marrage to have sex that Aids and every other STD would effectively be wiped out in less then 50 years. Think about it! It may be idealistic to think that everyone would wait, but she had a point, and clearly showed to me there is some value in abstaining until marrage. Even with condoms and birth control which help to lower STDs and unwanted pregancies they do not work perfectly as does waiting until your married. (Though, I am somewhat of a realist, so at least if you are going to have sex at least use protection, but never discount Jay’s point!)
Some other “person” wrote to tell Jay to keep his “Fucking ass” off of this site. Didn’t your parents ever teach you any manners! Jay has every right to be on this site provided that he is disscussing something relavant to having sex for the first time, which he clearly was.
Another person took a cheap shot and him and said that if he was a real Christain that he should not be viewing such a site. Why? This isn’t a pornography site where with images of explicit sex! This is a site where people are sharing a partular even (their first time) with other readers. Even the bible tells the story of Adam’s first time with Eve and just go to the book of Solomon and read about his sexual encounter with his wife! Jay probably is here merely to share his views on sex, which he is entitled to do! Also, like it or not Christians are commanded to share their faith by Jesus! (The great commission) If Jay only shared his faith on religous sites it would defeat his whole purpose because the readers there are already Christians.
The reason I am so sympathic to Jay and his position even though I am not a Christian is because I have a lot of friends who are Christains and am searching into areas of faith myself. I also had my first sexual encounter when I was 15. I had been dating my boyfriend Brian for about three months and he had kept suggesting that we have sex in order to make our relationship closer. I really was afraid at first because I didn’t want to get pregnant of an STD. When he agreed to wear a condom I finally said ok. We planned to do it on a friday night when his parents were out of town. The night finally came and we had sex together. No, it was not a bad experience at first. I enjoyed making love to him and yes, if you must know, I did have an orgasom. On a physical level it was wonderful for both of us, and it did seem to draw us closer at first. About five weeks later he said he wanted to move on and we broke up. I was totally crushed! Not just because I broke up with someone I cared about because I had done that the year before with another guy that I did not sleep with but because I had given myself so intimately to him that night and succeeding nights. I felf so depressed and short changed! I was hurt so bad that I have never been able to bring myself to have sex with another guy since. I do want to have sex again someday but not until I really know and love the guy I am with and can be assured he will not dump me. I don’t know if I will wait until I am married to have sex again but really, it does not sound really all that bad!
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