Where it happened: at a wedding
Langauge: English
Sex: Male
Rating: 4
Category: Straight
This is the story of my daughter’s giving up her virtue and my failure as a father. The story by the girl whose brothers broke into her room struck home to me.
The facts of the matter as they developed after we lost our daughter is that my sons had placed a tap on our telephone with a cassette machine, and had repeatedly searched my daughter’s room, and worst of all, drilled peepholes in the bathroom, and the bedroom of my daughter and the marriage bedroom of my wife and I. We were not aware of all of this but there were other signs that pointed to these terrible transgressions. There was an instance when our daughter installed a sliding bolt on her door which we insisted she remove due to reasons of fire safety or medical emergency. There was another instance in she complained about a locked metal box in which she kept computer disks that was broken into. Locks are for to protect valuables from thieves. Not to shut those who love you out of your life. Our Christian Values said that people who are right with GOD never have anything to hide from their families. In fact this is what we said time and time again whenever our daughter complained. Our minister felt the same way but it is not his family that is in shambles today.
The day I lost my daughter happened as follows. My daughter was 17 at the time when she brought her boy friend to her home while the family was out. My wife and I were out of town having left her in charge of her two brothers aged 14 and 15 at the time. Our sons were out for the day with another family going to an amusement park. Unfortunately, they had car trouble and the trip was canceled. As far as I can determine looking back the following events happened. The boys saw their sister’s door was closed and they went to their peep hole. Through which they watched their sister fornicate in her bed. They watched for a while and then decided to take a picture. I made my fine Canon camera available to them some time before and they became avid photographers. They even set up a darkroom in the basement to develop their own pictures. It occurs to me now that there were pictures being developed under our roof that were not possible to take to the store to get developed. The boy friend got a plank that he cut to the right length to lay between the bottom of my daughter’s bedroom door and the short wall that contained the closet. The boys were unable to open the door due to the plank and they broke the door down to gain entry into the room. There was a scuffle which resulted in two fingers being broken on the part of the friend of our boys and a bad wound on the head of the boy friend. After our daughter disappeared we went to her old boy friend to try to find information and we learned that his wound was caused by one of my sons swinging the camera by the strap at him. I now have to look at my camera being purposely smashed by the boy friend in a new light. Our mistake is paying all of our attention at the fornication of our daughter and no attention at all at the transgressions of our sons. My daughter’s boy friend was nowhere near the sinner my sons were. Several times he tried to talk with us but we would have none of that. I shut the front door on his face and hung up the telephone as soon as I found out who he was. When we visited him when our daughter disappeared he invited us in to his house and was willing to talk to us. He listened to our questions politely and my heart tells me he answered truthfully. Some of the things he had to say hurt to hear but I have to admit that they are the truth. He said he and our daughter had nothing more to do with each other since the incident because she wouldn’t speak to him after that except for two occasions. The first time was when she asked him to erase the computer disks that he kept at his house for her which he did. The other time he spoke to her was when they were forming up for the graduation procession. He shook her hand to say good-bye and to say he was sorry for his part in what happened the year before. He told us that she said he had nothing to apologize for and the whole problem was her family especially her parents. He told us her words meant that she was still very angry and that he isn’t surprised that she has disappeared the very next day. He told us that he has no idea what her plans were because those two times were the only times they spoke with each other since the incident. He said she had nothing to do with her friends their senior year and that he went to the school guidance counselor due to his concern for her welfare. The school guidance counselor told him that the relationship was over and he should let go and get on with his life. He felt that due to what happened he didn’t have reputation to help her and tried to talk to her friends. He felt she would be better off on her own than with her family and it might be a while before we hear from her again. He thought she might have made up her mind right after the incident to leave home now that he thinks about it due to her not having anything to do with her friends after that. When I said I was ready to receive his apology he said that he was no longer offering it. He said it was something they both planned to do and he used birth control to protect my daughter and he did care for her besides loving her and tried to help her afterward and he has concern for her to this day. He said there were plenty of girls in his class who did not get as much from their boy friends. He said he decided on not going on any more dates until he went to college as punishment for himself. I asked him if learned his lesson about fornication. He said the lesson he learned was to look carefully at his next girl’s family as possible in-laws. I was not nearly as polite to him as he was to my wife and I. We did not leave on very good terms. Now I have to admit that what he said is true. I don’t know how many times I reviewed that talk in my mind since then. After saying good-bye to this boy, one Truth that was Revealed to us is that our daughter’s reformed ways in which she was the perfect daughter was all play acting. She went to Wednesday Prayer and Friday Youth Fellowship all year without any arguments and we were worried whether that was play acting that too. You can fool your parents with a false heart but you can’t fool GOD.
I don’t think I will ever see my daughter again as it has been 8 years since she has disappeared. Both of my sons are in prison for sex crimes and my ex-wife blames me for not having a firmer hand with them. At least my sons are right with GOD now. My ex-wife and I are divorced even though it is against our religion. I just want to have fathers read this when they catch their daughters with their boyfriends. There are worse things than having your daughter lose her virtue. You can lose them entirely. I am also concerned for my daughter’s soul.
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