Where it happened: My apartment
Langauge: English
Sex: Female
Rating: 5
Category: Straight
I never thought much about the fact that I was a 22 year old virgin. Not only was I a virgin I had never been kissed or had a boyfriend. I never dated in high school (there were two dates) and didn’t date in college because I was busy with extra-curriculars. My friends said I gave off the impression that “you just don’t give a shit” They were right. I didn’t! I couldn’t be bother. After college I got a job and my best friend and I got an apartment together. I met the boy next door.
He lived with his mother, was almost 30 and worked odd jobs. A real catch, right? Actually…I was smitten. Can’t describe it, but the lightbulb just went on. We went on two dates. Then I came to my ‘senses’ because we were complete opposites and it’d never work. I didn’t see him for a month. And then we went out again. He lived next door so of course it was hard to avoid him! He took me to a seedy bar on our third date. I loved it. I told myself, “you can at least tolerate this guy so it’s now or never, loser!!” We went back to my apartment and I said, “you know, no monkey business but can I just wrap my legs around you? That’d feel so good.” I had picked that tip up from some tv biography of Delta Burke that she did that with her husband (as a side-note, she’s right – wrapping your legs around a man is one of the nicest feelings in the world, even without sex).
So I wrapped my legs around him and he instantly got hard. Then we kissed, he felt me up, and then I suggested we move things into my room. I stopped to get a condom from my roomate. I didn’t know what I was doing but I can dance so I don’t think I was that bad. Who knows, honestly. I bled. It wasn’t painful but it didn’t rock my world. We dated off and on for a year and a half from that moment on. It took until about sex sesion #4 till he flipped me over on my stomach to enter (vaginally) from the rear. At first I thought it was kinda humiliating – like he was just using me. And maybe he was. But that was our position, it worked for us. I watched this movie, “Half-Nelson” and got all teary eyed cuz they were doing our position! Anyway, the relationship was a bust because, just as I knew from the very beginning, we were too different. I think what kept us together was the fact that we couldn’t keep our hands off each other.
Regardless: I’ll be forever thankful that my first time was so much better than it was for many, many, people. And I know that the rest of my life I’ll always love him because he was my first everything. Also, I’ll always have a special place in my heart for Delta Burke. Thanks, Delta!
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