Where it happened: going to be college
Langauge: English
Sex: Female
Rating: 5
Category: Straight
I want to say some thing even though I have no “first time” to write about. My boy friend has been pressuring me to go all the way since August and the real big push came on my birthday a week ago. I have been reading this site since my girl friend told me about it when I asked her if I should go all the way. What my girl friend and me have decided is that we would count up all the times a person was glad or not and keep the various counts by age and sex. What we found out is that boys are much more glad they did it than girls. We also found out that the younger girls were sadder than the older girls. The big thing is the girls wish they didn’t more than the boys. I would give the numbers but we have to do this when we are alone because our parents would kill us if they even guessed we were thinking about doing it and we are not finished yet. Any way I just wanted to say that my girl friend and me have found some alright stuff like exploring sex alone and giving a boy sex without giving him sex if you know what I mean. This stuff actually is very helpful. I just want to say that my girl friend and me have decided to wait until college before going all the way and then it has to be with the right guy. If we do it in senior year then we have to break up when we go to college. Also getting caught when you are doing it by your father is just too awful to think about.
My English teacher says bad spelling means you never passed an English course or you went to a bad school or you just don’t care about the person reading what you have to say. If you want to be taken seriously, you have to have good spelling and good writing. I won’t put somebody down for spelling unless the spelling is real bad and then I have to wonder if they are some kind of uneducated jerk and there are some real uneducated jerks who write in.
I just want to say that I found this web site helpful in making up my mind. I am not going to wait until I get married but I don’t want to be stupid about it either. I have decided it is going to be both pill and condom for me when I do it or else I won’t do it. Besides pregnancy and STD, I want to make sure my boy friend really cares about me. It is like seat belts in a car because seat belts help but they don’t make you completely safe. The only way to be completely safe is to stay home and not go any where. I don’t plan to stay home as far as sex goes.
I know that I haven’t written this the very best but I know it is better than many others and I am only a sophomore in high school. Please think about what I say because this is real important to me.
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