Where it happened: Her Dorm
Langauge: English
Sex: Male
Rating: 1
Category: Straight
I always had the mindset that I would want to wait until I was in love to lose my virginity. Every guy gets the opportunity at young ages to have sex, but who can really say they made love their first time?
Well I was at boarding school, and my eventualy first time and first love was actually my best female friend. We were close friends for about a year and a half before we even kissed. At the time she had a boyfriend who was back at home. Well there was an obvious attraction between us, but we didn’t really talk about it much, it was kind of an
understood feeling.
Well one day I got up the courage to kiss her. There wasn’t any talking about it, it just happened. We kissed and touched for about 2 hours that day. The same thing the next day. I really fell for this girl, every night I was thinking about her, and my entire day rotated around thoughts of her. I was truly in love, and I told her everyday. She didn’t quite believe me, but with enough persistance every day telling her the samething, she eventually understood.
We came close to having sex once, I even put a condom on, but she looked a little concerned. I asked her what was wrong and she said that she wasn’t sure if she really wanted to do this (cheating on her boyfriend and all). I told her that if she had the slightest hesitation about doing it, then I didn’t want to either.. I really did love her!
6 months into our romance though, things weren’t going good with her boyfriend, and things had escalated with us, she was telling me now that she loved me. One weekend night, I think it was March, it was snowing out real hard. It was a pretty perfect scene. However, I didn’t have any condoms on me, they were in my dorm which was way up the hill. Yet, even with the feet of snow and blizzard weather, I hiked up to get them, and returned. We had 2 candles lit, and we made love. It wasn’t all that incredible, and I wasn’t even thinking about how I was losing my virginity, I was more concentrated on how we were sharing the ultimate experience with love. I didn’t brag about it to my friends, because I didn’t count it as a score, but rather a step in our love.
The sex continued until the end of the school year and afterwards into the summer. The best thing about our relationship is that we were such good friends regardless of the romance. However, I had just graduated from high school and was off to college, while she was finishing her senior year. I saw her a few times during that year, the friendship continued, but the romance dwindled off because of our distance.
To this day we still talk every now and then, and are still friends. I’ve been with 14 girls since then, and it has never been the same as the first. There is a real difference between making love and having sex… I hope this inspires some of you to wait for love, or go head and make that step if you do love someone.
One Love Miluv.
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