Where it happened: we'll see
Langauge: English
Sex: Male
Rating: 5
Category: Straight
Well, I’ve been following this site for quite some time now, and I must say it’s incredible that one site could so accuratly depict the moral degreadation of an entire society. It’s also incredible that it has taken nearly 15,000 entries for this argument to be made, but unfortunatly, that’s apparently the case. It is for that reason that I will now finally give an argument for sexual abstinance until marriage.
I don’t understand what is wrong with you people. It’s truly sad how you devalue something as potentially wonderfull as sex. Sex is to be respected. It’s not just another “thing to do,” but the most incredible thing one can do, and it should therefore be saved for the most incredible person you will ever know, which better be your spouse, and on the most incredible day you will ever experiance, which better be your wedding day/night. Think about how it all fits– special act, special person, special occasion.
All animals have sex in one form or another, but only humans have the chance to make it go beyond pure reproduction. It should be the most magical way to express your love to the most special person of your life. By not waiting until marriage, you are pretty much reducing sex to a base, animal ritual. Instead, think of your virginity as the most special gift you can give someone. Doesn’t your spouse deserve that gift? That way, you won’t “lose it”, but you will give it to the person who will be a part of your life forever.
It’s really all a matter of self control. Think of it this way: virginity pays interest. Like an investment, the longer you hold on to it, the more you profit in the end. After holding out for so long, imagine how truly incredible it will feel when you finally release your pent up sexual energy with your lifetime partner on that great night, and can do so totally free of guilt or worry. Maybe that’s why I often hear people who take part in pre-marital sex say they regret loosing their virginity when they did, but I never hear anyone way they regret waiting until marriage. In other words, by having pre-marital sex, all you are really doing is cheating yourself and your partner of something really great in the future, which is a pretty lousy way of treating both of you.
If these arguments aren’t enough, consider this. Over 50% of all marriages now end in divorce. I don’t honestly have the stats, but I would bet that this trend closely correlates to the “sexual revolution” that has hit the country. If you wait until marriage to have sex, instead of just loving his or her body and bedroom performance, you will know that you really love the person. If you really love the person, you will most likely be together for the rest of your lives, and will avoid the tremendous psychological and financial strains of divorce.
As you can hopefully tell, it’s all about considering the future. Everything you do in life has its consequences. We seem to be trained not to consider them, but hopefully what I am writing will change that for some of you people.
Notice that I am not using any religious arguments here. I am actually a staunch atheist, so I would never say such things. What I am talking about here is the benefits pre-marital abstinance can bring you in this life. Also, I am not using any arguments about STDs or pregnency. Instead of that negative approach, I am taking a positive approach in telling you how great waiting until marriage could be. PLEASE, THINK ABOUT IT. Also, I would love to read anyone’s reaction to this on this sight, positive or negative, so please respond. Goodbye everyone, and I sincerely hope you all make the right choice.
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