Where it happened:
Langauge: English
Sex: Female
Rating: 6
Category: Straight
my boyfriend posted our story on this page already, but i think we need my perspective also. first off, it hasn’t happened yet, but it will, and it will be with him. we both believe very strongly in the emotion being the part that is the most important, then the physical. we have been together for over a year, we’ve been in love for a year tonight, actually. we know that it will be each other. the timing is very important, in terms of us both being ready, and our realtionship being ready to take the step, if we feel that it we are mature enough to handle it, it will happen. not until that point however. we know how far to go and when to stop when we are too close or very tempted, physically. although sometimes we have gotten extremely close, we knew our limits. for example, the last time it happened was a few days before he left for college. we were lying naked in my bed and touching each other, our emotions were flying high. he asked me to take him to orgasm, if i wwas comfortable with it. iit was about our third time, and it was only my hand. but while that was going on, i became very tempted. as he approached his peak, i also became more excited. i had one leg wrapped around him and we were moving together. i had to struggle to keep myself off him, but i did because i knew it wouldn’t be right. that moment will be perfect. but anyway, i ended up getting him all over me, and it took me longer to recover than him. i was shaking and breathing hard. but the point is that we (i) were that close but still had the power to restrain ourselves and control the hormones because the emotions are what really matters. we always refer to sex as “making love” or “10 on the fun scale”. we use all sorts of things like that so nothing sounds crude or vulgar because to us, it’s not meant to be that way. we feel that emotions should be the foundation for everything. anyone who knows what i’m talking about understands and can agree and say that it makes things better. you are giving yourself to one person, one who loves you, truly loves you. and you love them. for everyone else, give feelings a try, they add to things and show you that there is more to life that just sex.
“when i make love that is what i am doing, making love” –meg ryan in “when harry met sally”
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