This isn’t necessarily about my first time. However, this is a story about how I drove my girlfriend nuts 🙂
My girlfriend (pseudonym of Jill) and I were both waiting for marriage to have sex (more on this later) but we were very into each other. This means, however, that we both became excellent kissers (I taught her, how could I be anything but?). Oftentimes, at night, we would get “distracted” from homework or whatever and go park the car somewhere and steam up the windows. No real groping or anything, just plain kissing, sometimes for hours on end and it was always a magical experience. It kind of sucked because I would always ejaculate due to the excitement and all but never once was she or I compromised.
Here is the interesting part- I could make her orgasm without even touching her. I could blow on her neck, her ear, her navel or back, pretty much anywhere I wanted and she would lose her mind. If I wanted to be hands on (who doesn’t?) I could touch pretty much anywhere on her body and she would experience pleasure, e.g. toes, between her breasts, back of the knee, ear lobe, her top lip, etc. Despite the pleasure she felt, she would never let herself experience the orgasm itself, just everything leading up to it.
Well, one night after a long respite in seeing each other (whole ‘nother story), we were making out and I was exploring around a bit and I began to blow down her shirt. This seemed to really get her going so I put my lips between her neck and her right breast and began to sing her a song (Run Around by Blues Traveler). She began to violently swing her hips everywhere and I just kept going. After about 3 minutes I heard her quickly gasp, freeze up and then breathe really deeply a few times, all with a look of astonishment and then delight. She began to kiss me all over my face and neck and asked me to do it again (so I did). That was an awesome night filled with a lot of love 🙂
It is unfortunate that she broke up with me, a part of me will always love her. She is now pregnant with her fiancee’s love child (He promised not to kiss her until marriage… rrright) and I am still a virgin and plan to keep it that way until I am married.
The best advice I can give anyone is to wait until they are married to consummate their relationship. I may be a virgin, but I have a large family and I can see the benefits of holding off on instant gratification and waiting for a truly loving and sharing experience. Keep your eyes on God and save yourselves for something better.
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