Some First Time Advice to the World

Well, I know it’s a bit old for me to have my first time, but that’s the way things work.

In highschool I had this crush on a girl and I was thinking that with time, we’d be each other’s first. However, her friend messed it up for both of us, and I took the whole thing pretty hard. Everyone assumed I wasn’t a virgin, because I’m a total Preppie and extremely popular. I dated a lot, and made out a lot too. The girls just figured I wasn’t the “easy type”. I got “action” before, but I never went all the way.

At college, I dated a few girls and I had an opportunity for a 3some. I guess one girl had a crush on me (I had one on her too) but we didn’t know this at the time. She thought the only way to get me into bed with her was to make me an offer that I couldn’t refuse. This offer included her friend, who I was in NO WAY attracted to. So that didn’t happen.

Now I’m at University. I decided by this point to still save it for someone I really cared about. But go figure, it didn’t happen. Last weekend I met this really cute girl at University. We came back to my place and drank a bit and started making out. She was a total sweetheart, and I found out shes old. I started to put the brakes on, but she quickly made me forget. (4 years isn’t bad, but I’m a bit reserved when it comes to age.)

We started making out on the couch, and I explored every inch of her body. She explored me some too. She claimed she had sex before (I never told her that I didn’t) but she seemed like a newbie to me. (She wasn’t, but it seemed that way.) Anyways after a while we decided to sleep in bed together. I started her off by kissing her all over and rubbing her body. She really liked it, and then I started giving her digits. After a while of work I made her orgasm. After that she wanted me THEN. So I had sex with her and the first time was really fast in the missionary position. I heard lots of stories saying that the first time is fast, but wow… Anyways, I made it up later on when I lasted way longer. I got on her from behind and did it that way and then moved into the missionary position again. I paced myself like what I heard about tantric sex. It seemed to work really well.

So anyways, that was my first time. The problem is though I really should have waited. I’ve kept the whole thing tight lipped, but some stories did get out and it kinda hurt some other people’s feelings that I didn’t know had feelings for me. I feel totally miserable now, because it hurt the feelings of a girl I liked a lot. Not only that, but the girl I had sex with has a big crush on me, and wants me bigtime. She said I was the best sex she’s ever had. So I’m in the process of making things clear to her, while patching up things with the other girl.

So this is what I learned from all of this, sex totally rocks! It’s one of the best feelings in the world. However, I bet it would have be even better with someone I really cared about and loved. So if anyone hasn’t had sex yet and is reading this, just stay patient… even though it seems everyone else is “having sex”. Just wait and you’ll be even more happy if your first time is with the girl of your dreams.

I really wish I could write “Love ya so and so..” like some of the other great first time stories on here, but this first time didn’t leave me completely feeling happy about what happened. I’m so jealous of them.

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